Self: A bud can be beautiful, a work of art even. But I'm finding it simply can't compare to the openness of the blossom. Looking for my sun. ~Jeb Dickerson

Self: A criminal becomes a popular figure because he unburdens in no small degree the consciences of his fellow man, for now they know once more where evil is to be found. ~Carl G. Jung

Self: A man is ever apt to contemplate himself out of all proportion to his surroundings. ~Christina G. Rossetti

Self: A man is sometimes lost in the dust of his own raising. ~David Ruggles

Self: A man who finds no satisfaction in himself, seeks for it in vain elsewhere. ~François VI de la Rochefoucault

Self: A man's subconscious self is not the ideal companion. It lurks for the greater part of his life in some dark den of its own, hidden away, and emerges only to taunt and deride and increase the misery of a miserable hour. ~P.G. Wodehouse

Self: A wise man never loses anything if he have himself. ~Michel de Montaigne, translated

Self: Ah! but the moods lie in his nature, my boy, just as much as his reflections did, and more. A man can never do anything at variance with his own nature. He carries within him the germ of his most exceptional action; and if we wise people make eminent fools of ourselves on any particular occasion, we must endure the legitimate conclusion that we carry a few grains of folly to our ounce of wisdom. ~George Eliot

Self: All men are sculptors, constantly chipping away the unwanted parts of their lives, trying to create their idea of a masterpiece. ~Eddie Murphy, 1979

Self: Almost always it is the fear of being ourselves that brings us to the mirror. ~Antonio Porchia

Self: Among navigators there are some who discover worlds, who add new continents to the earth and new constellations to the heavens: they are the masters, eternally splendid. Other belch terror from their vessels' guns and wax rich and fat from their plunder. Still others leave home to seek gold and silk under foreign skies. And still others merely let down their nets to catch salmon for gourmets and cod for the poor. I am the obscure and patient pearl-fisher, who dives deep and comes up empty-handed and blue in the face. A fatal attraction draws me down into the abysses of thought, down to those innermost recesses that never lose their fascination for the strong. I shall spend my life watching the ocean of art where others are sailing or fighting; and from time to time I'll entertain myself by plunging to the bottom in search of green or yellow shells. No one will want them, so I'll keep them for myself alone, and use them to cover the walls of my hut. ~Gustave Flaubert, letter to Louise Colet

Self: And remember, no matter where you go, there you are. ~Confucius

Self: Anyone can promise the stars. Only you can reach them. ~Dodinsky

Self: As the roots of a tree are hidden in the earth, so we may regard the root of our Ego as sunk in a world beyond our consciousness... ~William F. Barrett

Self: At some point in my life, I swallowed a Sun. And now it dawns and sets in my belly. ~Erika Harris

Self: At the fireside of life in the deep quietude beyond my deserts, I was happy. Faithfully, truth casts his leaves forth upon the wind, but few indulge in revelation to the heart. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

Self: At this very moment, you may be saying to yourself that you have any number of admirable qualities. You are a loyal friend, a caring person, someone who is smart, dependable, fun to be around. That's wonderful, and I'm happy for you, but let me ask you this: are you being any of those things to yourself? ~Phillip C. McGraw

Self: Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind. ~Dodinsky

Self: Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail. ~John Donne

Self: Be useful each day and take control of your own health. Laziness and apathy can settle into your spirit if you aren't paying attention. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: Biographies are but the clothes and buttons of the man — the biography of the man himself cannot be written. ~Mark Twain

Self: Circumstances are moulds in which characters are run. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: Daily I learn — sometimes painfully, other times with glee — that mine is a path never meant to be paved. ~Jeb Dickerson

Self: Did you really run into a monster on your path, or just a mirror? ~Terri Guillemets

Self: Dig within. There lies the well-spring of good: ever dig, and it will ever flow. ~Marcus Aurelius

Self: Each has his past shut in him like the leaves of a book shown to him by heart, and his friends can only read the title. ~Virginia Woolf

Self: Each of us is something of a schizophrenic personality, tragically divided against ourselves. ~Martin Luther King, Jr.

Self: Each one of us is alone in the world... We seek pitifully to convey to others the treasures of our heart, but they have not the power to accept them, and so we go lonely, side by side but not together, unable to know our fellows and unknown by them. ~W. Somerset Maugham

Self: Every day ask yourself, "What would I do today if I were a better person?" ~Robert Brault

Self: Every day I go forth to seek my identity, feeling greatly blessed by the things I don't find it in. ~Robert Brault

Self: Every man has a mob self and an individual self, in varying proportions. ~D.H. Lawrence

Self: Every man is his own ancestor, and every man his own heir. He devises his own future, and he inherits his own past. ~H.F. Hedge

Self: Every morning I start with a drink from my cup of sunshine, to remind myself of who I am before I step into the world of "this is who we think you are." ~Dodinsky

Self: Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody. ~Mark Twain

Self: Everything that I bear within me bound, is to be found somewhere else free. ~Antonio Porchia

Self: Falling, falling, falling, falling down. Look yourself in the eye before you drown. ~Emily Saliers

Self: From birth to death every man is weaving destiny around himself, as a spider does his web. ~Helena P. Blavatsky

Self: Get involved. You don't want to look back on your life and realize that you successfully managed to stay out of it. ~Robert Brault

Self: Grace is within you. If it were external, it would be useless. ~Ramana Maharshi

Self: Having perfected our disguise, we spend our lives searching for someone we don't fool. ~Robert Brault

Self: He who takes an accurate account of his moral-stock-in-trade, will find his chief assets to be made up of selfishness, and his principal liability the debt he owes to nature. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: How easy it is to be "deep": all you have to do is let yourself sink into your own flaws. ~E.M. Cioran

Self: I am a raging sea trapped in a raindrop. ~Author unknown

Self: I am my own heaven and hell! ~J.C.F. von Schiller

Self: I could not clearly distinguish what was passing in my head; it seemed to me that I was under the influence of a horrible dream and that I had but to awake to find myself cured; at times it seemed that my entire life had been a dream, ridiculous and childish, the falseness of which had just been disclosed. ~Alfred de Musset

Self: I know not what phantom we take for self.... ~Alexandre Vinet

Self: I like to jot down thoughts and ideas as I tread life's garden, for then sometimes when I am weary I can turn a leaf and find what my mood was on a certain day and that changes a train of thought and brings back sunshine. ~Helen Rose Anne Milman Crofton

Self: I like too many things and get all confused and hung up running from one falling star to another till I drop. ~Jack Kerouac

Self: I loathe the expression "What makes him tick." It is the American mind, looking for simple and singular solution, that uses the foolish expression. A person not only ticks, he also chimes and strikes the hour, falls and breaks and has to be put together again, and sometimes stops like an electric clock in a thunderstorm. ~James Thurber

Self: I must reconsider my position, as I cannot go on living here as I am doing, though I know that there is no such thing as changing one's life: one merely wanders round and round within the circle of one's own personality. ~Oscar Wilde

Self: I say , knowing all the while it's not me. ~Samuel Beckett

Self: I should like to see any man's biography with corrections and emendations by his ghost. We don't know each other's secrets quite so well as we flatter ourselves we do. We don't always know our own secrets as well as we might. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

Self: I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart. I am. I am. I am. ~Sylvia Plath

Self: I was right not to be afraid of any thief but myself, who will end by leaving me nothing. ~Katherine Anne Porter

Self: I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in the darkness, the astonishing light of your own being. ~Hafez

Self: I'm restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again. ~Anaïs Nin

Self: If I had it to do again, I would less often judge myself and more often ask for a jury. ~Robert Brault

Self: If men could regard the events of their own lives with more open minds, they would frequently discover that they did not really desire the things they failed to obtain. ~Andre Maurois

Self: If solitude deprives of the benefit of advice, it also excludes from the mischief of flattery. But the absence of others' applause is generally supplied by the flattery of one's own breast. ~William Benton Clulow

Self: If we cannot be happy and powerful and prey on others, we invent conscience and prey on ourselves. ~Elbert Hubbard

Self: If you hate your parents, the man or the establishment, don't show them up by getting wasted and wrapping your car around a tree. If you really want to rebel against your parents, out-learn them, outlive them, and know more than they do. ~Henry Rollins

Self: In a speech, the columnist Charles Krauthammer.... offered a new version of Socrates' famous saying, "The unexamined life is not worth living." In our age of bottomless self-love and obsession with our own feelings, Krauthammer suggested, "The too-examined life is not worth living either." ~John Leo, December 1993, Universal Press Syndicate

Self: In every part and corner of our life, to lose oneself is to be the gainer; to forget oneself is to be happy. ~Robert Louis Stevenson

Self: It is hard sometimes to let someone else live by the same deceptions you allow yourself. ~Robert Brault

Self: It is no good casting out devils. They belong to us, we must accept them and be at peace with them. ~D.H. Lawrence

Self: It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere. ~Agnes Repplier

Self: It is not impossibilities which fill us with the deepest despair, but possibilities which we have failed to realize. ~Robert Mallett

Self: It is often hard to bear the tears that we ourselves have caused. ~Marcel Proust

Self: It's easy to get lost when the map is in your hand and not in your heart. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: It's hard, sometimes, when nothing's stopping you, to know what's stopping you. ~Robert Brault

Self: It's like, at the end, there's this surprise quiz: am I proud of me? I gave my life to become the person I am right now! Was it worth what I paid? ~Richard Bach

Self: Just let awareness have its way with you completely. ~Scott Morrison

Self: Just throw away all thoughts of imaginary things, and stand firm in that which you are. ~Kabir

Self: Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom. ~Buddha

Self: Let thy hands be as the hands of a good watch, through every golden moment marking the worthy progress of the inner life. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: Let's get lost in the dark, forget who we were, and resurface as something new. ~Daniel

Self: Life is a pure flame, and we live by an invisible sun within us. ~Thomas Browne

Self: Looking back, you realize that a very special person passed briefly through your life, and that person was you. It is not too late to become that person again. ~Robert Brault

Self: Man casts the shadow of whatever he loves. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: Man is never alone. Acknowledged or unacknowledged, that which dreams through him is always there to support him from within. ~Laurence van der Post

Self: Many a man gets swamped in the mire of his own character. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: Many a one cannot loosen his own fetters, but is nevertheless his friend's emancipator. ~Friedrich Nietzsche

Self: Many unwittingly enter into co-partnership with Satan to work out their own destruction. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: May those who are impoverished by their thoughts be blessed with the realization of the richness of their spirit. ~Dodinsky

Self: Misfortunes one can endure — they come from outside, they are accidents. But to suffer for one's own faults — ah! there is the sting of life. ~Oscar Wilde

Self: Most often, walking alone with my shadow is how I find my answer, the result of gathering together all agreeable parties. ~Robert Brault

Self: My flag is raised high today. For others to see, sure. But more so to find which way my wind is blowing. Almost time to chart a course. ~Jeb Dickerson

Self: My greatest wealth is the deep stillness in which I strive and grow and win what the world cannot take from me with fire or sword. ~Johan Wolfgang Von Goethe

Self: My heart filled with love, flowing over with joy, my own little drum that I like to march by! ~Gunda Fijnje-Nolan, September 4th 2009, winner of The Quote Garden create your own quote contest on

Self: My life should be unique; it should be an alms, a battle, a conquest, a medicine. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Self: No matter how hard you pursue pleasure and success, there are times when you fail. No matter how fast you flee, there are times when pain catches up with you. ~Bhante Henepola Gunaratana

Self: No matter what you do in life, a part of you still sits at a curbside, still hearing the drumbeat of a distant parade, still waiting for it to turn the corner. ~Robert Brault

Self: No one can drive us crazy unless we give them the keys. ~Doug Horton

Self: No sooner is your ocean filled, than he grumbles that it might have been of better vintage. Try him with half of a Universe, of an Omnipotence, he sets to quarrelling with the proprietor of the other half, and declares himself the most maltreated of men.—Always there is a black spot in our sunshine: it is even, as I said, the . ~Thomas Carlyle

Self: Not a blade of grass but has a story to tell, not a heart but has its romance, not a life which does not hide a secret which is either its thorn or its spur. Everywhere grief, hope, comedy, tragedy; even under the petrifaction of old age, as in the twisted forms of fossils, we may discover the agitations and tortures of youth. This thought is the magic wand of poets and of preachers: it strips the scales from our fleshly eyes, and gives us a clear view into human life; it opens to the ear a world of unknown melodies, and makes us understand the thousand languages of nature. Thwarted love makes a man polyglot, and grief transforms him into a diviner and a sorcerer. ~Henri-Frederic Amiel, 28th March 1855 (journal), translated from French by Mary Augusta Ward

Self: Once your awareness becomes a flame, it burns up the whole slavery that the mind has created. ~Osho

Self: One cannot spend forever sitting and solving the mysteries of one's history. ~Lemony Snicket

Self: One must have chaos within one to give birth to a dancing star. ~Friedrich Nietzsche

Self: One's only real life is the life one never leads. ~Oscar Wilde

Self: Only you can set you free. ~Living Colour

Self: Our credulity is greatest concerning the things we know least about. And since we know least about ourselves, we are ready to believe all that is said about us. Hence the mysterious power of both flattery and calumny. ~Eric Hoffer

Self: People aren't ignoring you. They are busy with their lives. And the way to stop feeling ignored is to get busy with yours. ~Robert Brault

Self: People wish to be settled: only as far as they are unsettled is there any hope for them. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Self: Renew thyself completely each day; do it again, and again, and forever again. ~Chinese inscription cited by Thoreau in

Self: Reputation is in itself only a farthing candle, of a wavering and uncertain flame, and easily blown out, but it is the light by which the world looks for and finds merit. ~James Russell Lowell

Self: Self is the only prison that can ever bind the soul. ~Henry Van Dyke

Self: Self-delusion: short term self-protection in exchange for longer term self-destruction. ~Dr. Idel Dreimer

Self: Self-destruction is the effect of cowardice in the highest extreme. ~Daniel Defoe

Self: Selfishness is a bottomless pit. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: So you are lean and mean and resourceful and you continue to walk on the edge of the precipice because over the years you have become fascinated by how close you can walk without losing your balance. ~Attributed to Richard M. Nixon

Self: Some things become so completely our own that we forget them. ~Antonio Porchia

Self: Sometimes at night I light a lamp so as not to see. ~Antonio Porchia

Self: Sometimes I can hear my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I'm not living. ~Jonathan Safran Foer

Self: Sometimes I feel like I'm going nowhere, in opposite directions. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: Sometimes I feel like life misprinted me. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: Sometimes I'm doing things considered crazy by others, but then my heart giggles. That's when I know I am doing the right thing. ~Dodinsky

Self: Sometimes it's worth getting lost to see who will come looking for us. ~Robert Brault

Self: Sometimes we give up a dream to play a larger role in someone else's dream. ~Robert Brault

Self: Sometimes you can get so far in yourself that you don't know who you are. ~Henry Rollins

Self: Sometimes you have to breakdown before you can breakthrough. ~Marilyn Ferguson

Self: Sometimes, when I get too wrapped up in myself, I like to take a walk into town, and for an afternoon or so, just be the passing stranger in other people's lives. ~Robert Brault

Self: Take the time to come home to yourself every day. ~Robin Casarjean

Self: Take your work seriously, but never yourself. ~Margot Fonteyn

Self: Tell me what you feel in your room when the full moon is shining in upon you and your lamp is dying out, and I will tell you how old you are, and I shall know if you are happy. ~Henri Frederic Amiel

Self: That's the thing about needs. Sometimes when you get them met, you don't need them anymore. ~Michael Patrick King

Self: The body is a house of many windows: there we all sit, showing ourselves and crying on the passers-by to come and love us. ~Robert Louis Stevenson

Self: The Divine does not like to be shut up in a building. The Divine likes to be out in the open. It is right here in this very body. Each one of us is a miniature universe, a living shrine. ~Morihei Ueshiba

Self: The finest thing in the world is knowing how to belong to oneself. ~Michel de Montaigne

Self: The greatest hazard of all, losing one's self, can occur very quietly in the world, as if it were nothing at all. No other loss can occur so quietly; any other loss — an arm, a leg, five dollars, a wife, etc. — is sure to be noticed.

Self: The hardest prisons to break out of are the ones we build ourselves. ~Author unknown

Self: The inward light is forever striving to gather enough additional light to penetrate the fog of our senses. ~Henry Stanley Haskins

Self: The man that shows off, to that one who wants to convince of his value is to himself. ~Domenico Cieri Estrada

Self: The mirror will only lie, when you look at it through a mask. ~Anthony Liccione

Self: The only man we have any respect for is the man who uses all the endowment he has, and uses it until he bleeds. ~Martin H. Fischer

Self: The only person you should ever compete with is yourself. You can't hope for a fairer match. ~Todd Ruthman

Self: The outward man is the swinging door; the inner man is the still hinge. ~Eckhart

Self: The peace you seek is there, it's there between all the traffic in your mind, stop and rest for peace will find you if you let it. ~Mike Dolan

Self: The promises of this world are, for the most part, vain phantoms; and to confide in one's self, and become something of worth and value is the best and safest course. ~Michelangelo

Self: The ratio of matter, mind and spirit continually changes. ~James Lendall Basford

Self: The simplest and most familiar truth seems new and wonderful the instant we ourselves experience it for the first time. ~Marie Dubsky, Freifrau von Ebner-Eschenbach

Self: The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which must also make you lonely. ~Lorraine Hansberry

Self: The treasure of self is buried under the rainbow and yet glows beyond the sun. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: The trick to liking who you are is not to hate too much the person it turned out you weren't. ~Robert Brault

Self: The whole theory of the universe is directed unerringly to one single individual — namely to You. ~Walt Whitman

Self: The words "I am" are potent words; be careful what you hitch them to. The thing you're claiming has a way of reaching back and claiming you. ~A.L. Kitselman

Self: The world is not outside you. ~Ramana Maharshi

Self: There are at least two kinds of cowards. One kind always lives with himself, afraid to face the world. The other kind lives with the world, afraid to face himself. ~Roscoe Snowden

Self: There are plenty of people holding flashlights casting shadows, offering directions. Perhaps it's best if you light your own way. ~Jeb Dickerson

Self: There comes a morning in life when you wake up a new person; that is to say, you wake up the same person but you realize it's your own fault. ~Robert Brault

Self: There is a public me and a private me, who, if they were separate people, probably wouldn't exchange Christmas cards. ~Robert Brault

Self: There is a sort of man who pays no attention to his good actions, but is tormented by his bad ones. This is the type that most often writes about himself. ~W. Somerset Maugham

Self: There is as much difference between us and ourselves as between us and others. ~Michel de Montaigne

Self: There is great security in the prisons we create for ourselves. ~Stephen G. Scalese

Self: There is luxury in self-reproach.... When we blame ourselves we feel no one else has a right to blame us. ~Oscar Wilde

Self: There is no reason why a man should show his life to the world. The world does not understand things.... I have said to you that to speak the truth is a painful thing. To be forced to tell lies in much worse.... what is said of man is nothing. The point is, who says it. A man's very highest moment is, I have no doubt at all, when he kneels in the dust, and beats his breast, and tells all the sins of his life. ~Oscar Wilde, letter to Lord Alfred Douglas ("Bosie")

Self: There is nothing noble about being superior to some other person. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self. ~Hindustani Proverb

Self: There is part of us that stands in quiet witness to what we do, taking notes, waiting for a solitary moment to bring up the subject. ~Robert Brault

Self: There's nothing like self-improvement to get your friends to like you for who you were. ~Robert Brault

Self: Things happen in life that make us question our faith when perhaps they ought to make us question our life. ~Robert Brault

Self: Though confined to our destiny, we do get to pick the color scheme. ~Robert Brault

Self: To be happy is to be able to become aware of oneself without fright. ~Walter Benjamin

Self: To wash one's hair, make one's toilet, and put on scented robes; even if not a soul sees one, these preparations still produce an inner pleasure. ~Sei Shonagon

Self: Unjust. How many times I've used that word, scolded myself with it. All I mean by it now is that I don't have the final courage to say that I refuse to preside over violations against myself, and to hell with justice. ~Lillian Hellman

Self: Up to a point a man's life is shaped by environment, heredity, and movements and changes in the world about him. Then there comes a time when it lies within his grasp to shape the clay of his life into the sort of thing he wishes to be. Only the weak blame parents, their race, their times, lack of good fortune, or the quirks of fate. Everyone has it within his power to say, "This I am today; that I will be tomorrow." ~Louis L'Amour

Self: We all have to escape from this thing called life sometimes. Maybe we use substances to do it. Maybe we use religion. Maybe we use exercise. Maybe we use anger. But we all have to do it. blog, www.danoah.com

Self: We all know the part of us that needs to be harnessed. It takes someone else to know the part of us that needs to be set free. ~Robert Brault

Self: We are all primary numbers divisible only by ourselves. ~Jean Guitton

Self: We are happy when for everything inside us there is a corresponding something outside us. ~W.B. Yeats

Self: We are known to our friends by a look in our eyes that we never see in a mirror. ~Robert Brault

Self: We are lost if we get too much time to think about ourselves, provided that we regard ourselves not as an object of study, as a specimen, but always as everything that we now are. We become conscious of so much that is sad that at the thought of it we lose all inclination to bring the elements into order and connection. ~Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

Self: We are sure to be losers when we quarrel with ourselves; it is civil war. ~Charles Caleb Colton

Self: We confess to little faults only to persuade ourselves that we have no great ones. ~François VI de la Rochefoucault

Self: We do not deal much in facts when we are contemplating ourselves. ~Mark Twain

Self: We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be. ~Jane Austen

Self: We must be our own before we can be another's. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Self: We sometimes feel that we have been really understood, but it was always long ago, by someone now dead. ~Mignon McLaughlin

Self: We're all on different paths, but action is hard work and you must drive your own soul. ~Terri Guillemets

Self: Were it in his power to choose another life and another soul, I am not sure, if he could have his own over again, whether he would take anybody else's. ~Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

Self: What an odd, ruminating, noisy, self-interrupting conversation we conduct with ourselves from birth to death. ~Diane Ackerman

Self: What other dungeon is so dark as one's own heart! What jailer so inexorable as one's self. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

Self: What we do flows from who we are. ~Paul Vitale

Self: When I dance, I dance; when I sleep, I sleep. Nay, and when I walk alone in a beautiful Orchard, if my Thoughts are some part of the Time taken up with strange Occurrences, I some part of the Time call them back again to my Walk, or to the Orchard, to the Sweetness of the Solitude, and to my self. ~Michel de Montaigne

Self: When I look for my existence I do not look for it in myself. ~Antonio Porchia

Self: When the fight begins within himself, a man's worth something. ~Robert Browning

Self: When they were in school, Peter used to say that everything you do is a self-portrait.... "The only thing an artist can do is describe his own face." You're doomed to being you. This, he says, leaves us free to draw anything, since we're only drawing ourselves. Your handwriting. The way you walk. Which china pattern you choose. It's all giving you away.... Everything is a self-portrait. ~Chuck Palahniuk

Self: When you blame and criticize others, you are avoiding some truth about yourself. ~Deepak Chopra

Self: With regard to our bad qualities there can be only perpetual warfare or disgraceful peace. ~Marie Dubsky, Freifrau von Ebner-Eschenbach

Self: You grow up the day you have your first real laugh, at yourself. ~Ethel Barrymore

Self: You have the Answer. Just get quiet enough to hear it. ~Pat Obuchowski

Self: Your burden is of false self-identifications—abandon them all. ~Nisargadatta Maharaj

Self: Your heart knows your song, but you have to be willing to listen to the words.

Self: Your soul is all that you possess. Take it in hand and make something of it! ~Martin H. Fischer

Self: Your spirit is the true shield. ~Morihei Ueshiba